Today we begin our story in nature. Imagine you are walking in the woods, and you come to a little creek. You look over the water and spy some fat, ripe blackberries, wild grown, and ready for harvesting.

You can’t believe your good luck to find your favorite fruit, free for the taking, just a few meters across the creek. But then you look down and realize you’re wearing your favorite shoes. A walk through the water will ruin them! But you are also very, very, berry-hungry.

Stepping-stones are what you need. In a creek or river, stepping-stones are rocks with flat tops that sit above the water line. You can cross a creek by stepping from one rock top to another.

However, the term ‘stepping-stone’ is not only for creek-crossings. It is often used figuratively. A worker, for example, can use stepping-stones to reach a higher level or position in their company.

Let’s say it is your dream to become the chief financial officer of a profitable and powerful investment firm. Your first stepping-stone on that path might be admission to a respected university.

After completing your studies, you step to another stone, maybe it’s a job as a teller at a small bank. Some time later, the bank offers you a supervisory position. That promotion is a third stepping-stone. All of them are helping to make your dream come true.

Stepping-stones can be used to reach any kind of goal. But not every stepping-stone is a good place to land.

For example, some goal-seekers treat people as stepping-stones. And let’s face it, most people do not enjoy being stepped on. They may be happy to provide a stepping-stone but usually do not want to serve as one.

Using someone as a stepping-stone could be seen as stealing help.

There is another way we use the term ‘stepping-stone.’ Stepping-stones can be parts of a process within a larger operation. For example, learning how to write code is a stepping-stone for many app developers.